Why No One Says "Hello" - Adventures in El Salvador


I don't know if it's just me but people don't say hello to each other anymore, or least not as much as they used to. As a teenager, I see it a lot. We pass each other on the street and don't even make eye contact. We see each other in the store and pretend not to know each other. I know that seems silly and my mom always asks me why I don't say hi but it's an unwritten rule. As nothing more than classmates, we don't expect a greeting on either end. 

Contrary to our culture, El Salvadorians are generally very friendly. When the team I was with drove down the streets in our colourful bus, 99% of the people waved. Young kids shouted "Hola!" at us and we greeted them in return. We would wave and smile at people as we drove past them and they would wave and smile back at us, taking a temporary break from whatever they were doing. 

It was hard coming back home, to a place where we are often more interested in the ground than in meeting another's gaze. I was talking to my El Salvadorian friend about this when I'd been back at school for a week or so after the March break. He told me that people who don't return a greeting in El Salvador are too proud to do so.

When I see someone I know but am not necessarily friends with, I don't say hi. In fact, I continue on walking as if they don't exist because I convince myself that there is no possible way they'll remember that we had that two classes together last semester. 

If this insufficient reason is keeping me from saying "hi" to people I know, what's stopping me from greeting a stranger? Is it because I think I'm better than them? Is it because they look "different"? Or am I just too shy or lazy to lift my gaze from my sneakers? 

I don't think I have a good answer to that question that won't sound like an excuse. If you ask yourself those questions and can't come up with a justifiable answer, something needs to change. It's not physically exhausting to make eye contact and smile at someone we pass on the street, so why not give it a try?

It may seem out of place and unnatural at first, but it's a step towards building a stronger and friendlier community. I'm going to give it a try, how about you?


Turn the Page: The Importance of Reading

After a long day of work, school, or both, all I want to do is get comfy in my bed, and mindlessly watch "Friends" on Netflix. Life can be rough and after a mentally tiring day, it's so easy to shut down our brains for a while. However, falling into that pattern day after day isn't good for you! Reading allows you to keep your brain working in an entertaining way.

Try to think of reading as rebooting your brain. My favourite part of reading is using my imagination. I love to create the character's appearance and surroundings. I love to image facial expressions as I read and reread the dialogue with emotion. Although watching a movie is sometimes what you need, you don't get the privilege of creating anything yourself. Everything is laid out in front of you, you're given the characters and emotions with little to none left for the imagination. 

Picking up a book is better than watching TV because books give you the opportunity to learn new, useful things and improve your vocabulary and grammar. This may sound like an english teacher's speech but I know from personal experience that reading has helped me improve my writing style and has taught me about history and modern-day culture.  

Why I Like to Read

To me, there's nothing more satisfying than finishing that last sentence and closing the book cover. I love knowing that I invested hours of my time into something and got a great story and new knowledge in return. I usually catch myself going over the plot and thinking about how things would have ended differently if one character would have done this instead of that. Even after I am done a book, my imagination is still active.

Books provide me with instant entertainment. Bored on the bus? Read a chapter or two. Waiting for class to start? Fit in a couple pages before the bell rings. I love feeling the weight of a book in my hands and the hearing sound as I turn the page, one page closer to the end. 

Reading is a temporary escape from the world that keeps your brain engaged and increases your knowledge. Hopefully, the benefits I get from reading will inspire you to pick up a book, turn the pages, and read.